CrissCross LaCrosse

 Merrick is heading off to Lacrosse and we spent the day there getting an his courses registered and being given the finer points of admission.  Both him and Grace had their AP scores come in from the spring exams and ..wow, just wow we could not be more proud of their hard work.  It will certainly pay off from them both in college.  From UW-LaX to Summer LaX it has been a full summer.  Grace has her final summer weekend tourney in Chicago this coming weekend, and has a solid list of scouts their to watch her and chat her up about their respective schools.  We spent a weekend in Racine, complete with Italian dinner tradition, and another in Cincinnati.  The drive to Cincy started at 3 am, and ended at Mark's place about noon.  It was nice to have the extra space and creature comforts of a house rather than a hotel.  The whole Cincy family came to the early game on Saturday and Mark was able to make the whole tournament....and it was a crazy drama filled series between an Ohio team...complete with play stoppage for roster checks on the other team for two ineligible players that were playing on 2 teams in the tourney....extra player in 95ish heat makes a difference.  Then the most psychotic LaX mom hollering at the refs to check the rule book...reciting highlighted portions of the rulebook across the field.  Grace won the game but as Mark and I walked over towards the team and were discussing the game we unknowingly past the psycho...she overheard our comments and then it she unleased an profanity laced tirade for all to hear.  Grace's team advanced through the tournament to the championship game, she scored in each game, but ultimately lost in OT...I told Mark all in all we can not provide a tournament with more drama than this.  Sun scorched and sweated out we hoped into the car about 2:30 pm and drove back home....making as good of time as can be made on a nineish hour drive.

Grad Party

The weather was perfect for Merrick's Grad party and the families made their drives from far and wide.  We had smoked pork overnight and set up tables borrowed from work.  Merrick and his buddy were started to shoot some hoops while the adults chatted and ate....Merrick brought down the hoop, rim and post right on his own head.  Him and I left the party for the ER and he would ultimately need 7 staples in his scalp, but no concussion and were back to the party in about an hour.  His friend had waited for him and several other friends arrived while he was away.  This worked out well for Grace's friend how hid upstairs and watch the boys through the bedroom window.  Merrick was a little shaken but rebounded quickly.  His friends started kicking at the remaining post when Grandprize nudged me and said 'hand them a shovel"...the recent grads started digging and rocking the post from the cement, and with the help of a maul, expertly introduced by Grandprize as their enthusiasm was curbing they soon had the remaining basketball hoop free from the ground.  Kory offered to take the post and the remaining backboard, now sans glass, to his shop for disposal and with some borrowed dirt and grass seed from neighbors the whole clean up project was a smooth and fast as possible.  Merrick felt good enough to head off with his buddies to shoot a round a golf and another 2 rounds the next day.

 

Long week-Short Week

 

It was only Wednesday night, but it seems like it has been a long week.  Merrick walked the stage and finalized his first academic chapter.  Grandprize and Grandma made the trip over and we had plenty of last minute rearranging as the weather wasn't cooperating for an outdoor ceremony.  The original plan was everybody watching from the stadium bleachers, but in the end Amy sat with the faculty--she had amazing seats and was able to high five Merrick on his walk back from graduating--Grandma and I were in the back breaking bleachers, and Grandprize with in the plush seats of the auditorium watching a live stream of the ceremony.  We got there over an hour before the start and the place was already packed.  It was and is always great to see so many people supporting the students. After the normal pomp and circumstance the five of us headed over to Greystone to some light appetizers and chatter to wrap up the evening.  Merrick was a little nonplused about the whole graduation, stating that he didn't see the reason to celebrate what he was expected to accomplish.  Grandma thought she had heard this before somewhere.....about 32 years ago.  Be that as it may, Merrick was clearly pleased with the completion and everyone's support.  We headed home earlyish...as the new graduate had a full day of life guarding in the morning....although if the weather cooperated for him he was planning on spending most of it in the breakroom practicing his putting.

Kind of a big weekend

 

Early May is not unlike Early April...a blur of important days.  Anniversaries, Mother's day, and Ella's Birthday.  She hit a bit one, and it is now a little harder to pretend she isn't careening into adulthood.  We weren't with her, but she still spent it with family and met Bob/Nancy at the Joint for a beer, she continued with the mythology that it was her first time there although the bar tender kept calling her out on her BS to the delight of all that were there. With her year wrapped up she loaded up her car and head off to summer to work at a Camp that hosts campers with revolving disabilities.  Putting goodness back into the world.  Grace was playing LaX in MKE and Amy went to cheer her one, while I helped Sophia move out of her apartment in preparation for her graduation.  Hauled a trailer load of stuff back to GB.  This fall we will haul another trailer of different stuff back to set Merrick up in his dorm...ah the wheels of time.  Sophia's graduation and walking the stage was an emotional event and struck me more than I had anticipated.  She was home for only a day before she started her job in town.  Following her heart and helping others where she can. It is these milestones and rites of passage all coming so quickly together. The next day it was a different stage, different kid and all the same emotions.  Grace was inducted into the National Honor Society, complete with one of her friends reading Grace's bio with heartfelt warmth and talking about her volunteer service.  It is emotional to sit in the seats and watch others talk highly of your kids. It seems the kids are more accustomed to doing good things.  Both Merrick and Grace turned down invites to a school award ceremony and picked up their letters and accolades a few days ago without the pomp and circumstance. Grace showed us her big letter for academic performance, we asked Merrick about his.  He replied, "Yea, I got one for academics too, it looks the same as the one I got last time for volunteering."  They all are putting good into the world in so many different ways, but each way is inspirational to me.

Keeping the miles in the milestones....

 

April was its normal blur, but we had a few new milestones and rights of passage.  Grace had her junior prom with all its pageantry and pomp and giggling friendship.  She also hosted her LaX team for a team dinner pasta buffet. The house smelled of garlic for two days and they were a great group of girls. They have been playing a couple games a week, the competition is tough this year.  She is also getting daily recruiting 'hits' from coaches across the country. Merrick had his senior ball, a lower key affair than prom but still another rite of passage for him and his gang. With the weather turning nicer his golf team is getting more sun burn than frostbite for a change. Both of them are now deep into AP testing season and trying to rack up some college credits a little early.  Easter came and went, but they still hid a Basket for Grace...it was under the ottoman, but still took her about 20 minutes to find it.  Ella couldn't make it home for the holiday and Sophia spent it in EC with Grandprize and Grandma Nancy.  Ella also ran her first 1/2 marathon with her roommate.  We loaded up the bikes on the car and chased and cheered her all over Eau Claire on a cool rainy morning.  It was a blast, fun to chase her and fun to see her smiling as she ran the 13 plus miles in her personal best time!

Let Them eat Cake!

 

The opening salvo of April is always a little frenetic and to that we added a couple of milestone birthdays as well.  Merrick became an adult and I became a mailing list candidate for AAA and AARP.  Grace was nestled into the sweet spot straddling adulthood and fleeting adolescents. Merrick opted for a home dinner to celebrate and we gathered around for some sous vide, reverse seared flat iron steaks.  Grace opted for the more traditional birthday sushi..making sure we ordered enough for a left over sushi breakfast.  Grace had been lobbying hard for about 6 months for a friend party as well so by Sunday morning and late late into the afternoon she hosted a brunch for her friends and then they all painted portraits of each other.  Her actual birthday coincided with the LaX season opener and she filled the stands with fans.  Jan and Ron drove up, Bob and Nancy drove over with Ella, and Scott and Sonya meandered the DP roads to cheer her on. Grandprize had made a big roll out sign for her birthday and Ella convinced the team to roll it out during the game.  She scored 2 goals and an game MVP in an overall tough loss to a solid team.  The fans headed back to our house for some cake to celebrate even if she was out team bonding.  Saturday we switched gears to my birthday and we headed downtown to join the hands-off protests that were happening across the country before heading out to eat and then back home for some some more cake and laughs with the whole family.  Sunday was an early start for Bob/Nancy as the carpooled Ella back to EC in time for work.  Sophia stopped over to get her car before heading back to LaX, Merrick went golfing, and I tried to catch naps during Grace's party.  Just another great week surrounded by great people.

I would drive 500 miles, and I would drive 500 more..

 

I would drive 500 miles, and I would drive 500 more...catchy little earwig from the late 80s and a solid theme song for the past couple of days.  The house is on Spring break, and with Grace busy with work, prom dress fittings, and Lax practice and Merrick spending is time at the Y to recertify for summer life guarding Amy and I hit the road.  We set up mid day on Wednesday to meet up with Sophia in LaCrosse for dinner.  It was wonderful.  We ate tapas and had a few specialty drinks, before she gave us a tour of downtown including "Brad's school" where she has been interning and heading back to the Bodega for a few more drinks.  It was a great evening listening to her make her post graduation plans and consider all the impacts of adulting.  Amy and I spent the night at the Charmont and were unknowingly treated to a bit of celebrity conversation at the bar.  We ate at the Breakfast club and then made the beautiful drive through the hills north to meet up with Ella for a late lunch, stopping to watch the eagles gathered at the confluence  The temps were so nice and in the mid 60's with full sun.  Ella suggested lunch at The District and we all had comically large and sloppy sandwiches of some variation.  We wanted to hear all the details about her Civil Rights tour.  It was amazing, and the emotion in her telling was still very raw.  We took a walk around downtown and over the foot bridge...strangely arriving at the local jewelry store before heading back to Ella's Apartment and 80 degree indoor temperatures.  She worked at setting up her new phone and showed us the pictures of her trips and told us more about the experience and intensity of some of the days. It nearly 5 when Ella had to start writing school essays and we had to start our drive back East, feeling like proud parents, feeling blessed, feeling like we could have stayed another night and played in the Eau Claire spring air.